Question by Adam P.: I’m heartbroken and left confused. D:?
I’ve been dating my ex again (its a long distance relationship). We live about 5 hours away from eachother(me in LA, shes in San Francisco). Basically shes gotten herself into some MLM pyramid scam and lately shes been asking me to help her get up by sending her money(literally 200-300 dollars).
Confused as to why she kept bringing up her pyramid scam job I asked a friend to check her facebook(considering i don’t have one). I trusted her for the first 5-6 months blindly even though i had doubts. Unfortunately my friend found out her relationship status is “Married To” some random guy in Vegas.
I understand girls do this often but i’ve never seen a girl whos currently dating put another guy’s name in this sort of manner.
Yes i do feel horrible for spying on her but now i can’t sleep. I’m pretty heartbroken that even if he was a friend she’d place him before me. Shes NEVER mentioned his name to me for the 5-6 months we’ve been dating.
My question is, do i REVEAL that i actually spied on her? I’m afraid of what might result from the fact that i broke our trust. I made a facebook to add her so that i could bring it up myself, but she hasn’t accepted my request for the past 2-3 days.
To all the girls out there, is this normal? What could it be early or late sign of? Should i leave her? I don’t know what to do.
P.S. we had a very SLIGHT argument where i got annoyed that she asked me to “support” her by sending her money. She hasn’t called me for the past 3 days.
Best answer:
Answer by Darrick
Let’s see, should you leave. She lies to you about a husband and yes not saying anything is lying, she wants your money for something really stupid, what else oh yea she won’t return you calls or your what did you call it, a face book. Yes dump her, run and never look back.
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